We are a product of our society.Cinderella thaugt us that men should chase after us. So stop blaming girls for playing hard to get. Ariel let us believe that you should change yourself to be with someone. So stop blaming girls that are changing there appearance only to be accepted.Belle made us believe that goodness can always be found even in the darkest of places/ people. So stop blaming girls for being naive. We grew up with this fairytales. I just wish that not all story's had an happy ending; so that these kids would start asking queations why and the parents would tell them about reality.