Strength isn’t measured by how much you can take before you break, rather it’s about how much  can take after you broken. Hardships that you face in life, contribute to your strength. And subhanallah, that’s why Allah says  Fa inna ma'al 'usri yusra (Quran Surat Insyirah 5-6),  which means: ‘Surely, with the hardships comes ease’.  When your stronger, you can handle more, and things wil get easier later on. This shows that everything in life that happens to us has a benefit, even if we don’t understand it sometimes. And that's okay, sometimes we don't need to understand, we just need to put our trust in Allah (god).